Janet jackson quotes

It's very hard trying to have love and a career at the same time. For those who can, great, but I can't.

I have a pretty bad temper. But you have to really push me to see it. But everybody has their things.

Another side to me is this very sexual being. When I look back on my life, it's always been there. It's been there since I was 10 years old, having the imagination that I had.

Too many lives go up in smoke - It's nice to laugh but don't be the joke.

I feel most people’s sexuality is enormously complicated. That’s what it means to be human. Wouldn’t it be great if we honored that complexity rather than turn it into gossip or ridicule? Wouldn’t it be great if we accepted sexual diversity, in ourselves and others, without condemning it?

A lot of people who start work at a very young age never grow up because they never got that opportunity to be a child, so they hold on to that and still do a lot of childish, silly things.

There are artists, true performers that have come before me who have been a big inspiration to me. I hope I do the same for others.

Theres nothing more depressing than having everything and still feeling sad. We must learn to water our spiritual garden.

I like to have a lot of fun. I just don't see myself as being sexy. It's more sass - more attitude - than sex.

I don't find myself sexy.

I don't believe in luck. ... It's persistence, hard work, and not forgetting your dream.

There are two things that really move me: music and acting. And I'm not talking about my music or watching myself as an actor, but listening to other people's music and watching other actors. There are so many different songs that have moved me. It all depends upon the mood that I'm in at that moment.

My parents were strict. They weren't as strict on me as they were with the others, but my mother didn't want us to get on anyone's nerves... Go to someone else's house and drive their parents crazy. Another thing was they didn't want us to get into a lot of things that a lot of kids - if they're not careful - can slip into.

There's other things I'd like to do. I probably won't tour for a very, very long time. It's something that you feel inside and that's the way I've been looking at everything.

You can tell someone who doesn't have love in their life, then someone who is in love.

The pain is necessary. Sometimes pain is the teacher we require, a hidden gift of healing and hope.

I'm fine the way I am. There's nothing wrong with me.

Touring is very grueling. It's very taxing on the body and living out of your suitcase, going from city to city, night after night. It's a tough job.

When you hear bad things about yourself, just put your energies into something else; it's no good crying about it. Just put it into your music - it'll make you stronger.

I don't have a lot of friends.

Does what you think of you determine your worth?

I have a very strong family.

There are two sides of the Velvet Rope. Those who want to be on the other side and those who are on the other side.

The greatest achievement to any human being is to love God, yourself, and others.

You can't hold the record forever, and I know that. I'm not stupid.

Tie me up, tie me down, make me moan real loud.

Believe in yourself. Have faith in yourself because no one else is going to.

I study once in a while. But my parents never pushed us into anything. Until we were 18, my mother would make us go with her to Kingdom Hall, and when we turned of age, she let us choose what we wanted to.

Remember one rule, no rule.

When I do get married again, I'm just going to take time off.

I feel that when two people are married - not that you have to totally give up your career - you have to spend time with one another, get to know each other more, just share things with each other.

I would hope my legacy would be bringing smiles to faces. Happiness with my music.

I can't believe people got so upset at the sight of a single breast! America is so parochial, I may just have to move to Europe where people are more mature about things like that!

I like to read. Autobiographies.

My first name ain't baby, it's Janet, Miss Jackson if you're nasty

I'm just trying to get used to living on a fixed income. Now, it's going to get unfixed.

To have someone to relate to and hopefully enjoy the music and get a positive message out of it, to make the best music that we possibly could, those were the goals.

I am the baby in the family, and I always will be. I am actually very happy to have that position. But I still get teased. I don't mind that.

I was raised with a ton of brothers and sisters where, obviously, the music running in and out of the house was very eclectic. So, I had a lot under my belt by the time I grew up. It all depends upon the mood that I'm in, the space that I'm in and what I'm feeling at that moment. But definitely!

I do want to get married again, and I want to have kids. And this time, I really want to do it right.

It has taken me most of my adult life to come to terms with who I am. To do that, I had to break free of attitudes that brought me down.

Fear is the one emotion that unleashed can destroy anything and anyone.

I'll meet a guy now, and the next thing I know they'll be sweating and their hands will be shaking. And I feel so bad - I don't even know what to say to them. Then there are other guys who come on too strong, and they're just all over you. The nice ones are the ones who are in-between - the ones who aren't scared and who aren't all over you.

I lose things all the time. I used to lose my license all the time before I put a place in my car for it.

I believe in a higher power. I believe in inspiration.

I was very independent growing up, but there were things that were bothering me that I never told anybody. I would talk to our animals at home.

To be given permission to be confused -- and remain confused -- for as long as it takes would have been a huge gift.

No word is absolutely wrong or dirty or insulting. It all depends upon context and intention.

People can have rhinoceros skin, but there's a point when something's going to hurt you.

Dreams can become a reality when we possess a vision that is characterized by the willingness to work hard, a desire for excellence, and a belief in our right and our responsiblity to be equal members of society.

My dad taught us that there's no greater distance than that between first and second place.

It's two people that are in love with one another. What's the issue?

I love you - but don't touch me.

I was out once and had wine and I got sick to my stomach, and I vowed I would never drink again.

When I date different guys, I just have to stay away - and not let myself fall. Because if I do, it's over.

I've never been into what am I going to do next, trying to reinvent myself.

You dont have to hold on to the pain, to hold on to the memory.

I wanted to be on my own and get out of the house. We were the kind of kids that - we - obeyed our parents. If they said no, you don't ask why.

I can be happy with who I am, not what I should be, or what I might have been, or what someone tells me I must be.

I feel everyone is put here for a reason. Everyone has a calling. I always thought my real calling was to help other people.

That's what I think I am: a lot of fun - a lot of fun to be with.

I've talked about sex a great deal in my music for a great while now. I feel very comfortable with it.

I'm no expert. I have no psychic powers, and I sure don't possess any secret wisdom. I'm just Janet. I have strengths, weaknesses, fears, happiness, sadness. I experience joy and I experience pain. I'm highly emotional. I'm very vulnerable.

Damita Jo. Jo. That's my middle name. It's let in about the different characters that live within me. They say we have 200 characters that we portray with different people.

I work with a lot of different charities, and by that I don't mean merely by giving money, but by really getting involved hands-on. I've always said that one of the reasons why I was put on this Earth was to help people. That's something I've always enjoyed both here in America and if I have the opportunity when I'm traveling out of the country. For example, I like to visit orphanages to spend time with the children. That's very important to me.

I've always been a tomboy. I've always liked to wear red, black, and white, and mostly pants.

All those songs reflect all the people that live within me.

When I'm feeling down on myself or not feeling good about who I am, or maybe something happened and I'm feeling depressed, I eat to fill that void. Afterwards I'll beat myself up about it. I regret doing it, but I'll turn around and do it again.

Competition is great. And as long as it's friendly and not a malicious thing, then I think it's cool.

Bound together by our beliefs, we are like minded individuals, sharing a common vision, pushing toward a world rid of color lines.

You can't worry about pleasing other people; you have to please yourself.

I wanted to be a jockey. I'm serious. First time I got on a horse, I loved it. That's what I wanted to be, but my dad asked me to start performing with my family.

I don't see anything wrong with staying young looking as long as you can.

You get yourself up for it somehow, and your endurance and the crowd gets you up, too.

I can express gratitude for the simple act of being able to breathe in and breathe out. I can move away from darkness and depression to light and hope. I can be happy with who I am, not what I should be, or what I might have been, or what someone tells me I must be. I am me, the true me; you are you, the true you - and that's good. That's beautiful. That's enough.

My brothers were gone on tour a lot, and I would miss them so much.

I'm convinced that we Black women possess a special indestructible strength that allows us to not only get down, but to get up, to get through, and to get over.

I am not a religious person, but I am spiritual. But I don't believe in things like guilt.

If people want to know the truth, why don't they just come to me and ask?

I truly felt that was going to be my last tour. So here we are again and I'm saying this will probably be my last tour. That's truly the way I'm looking at it.

Every body type is different - that's what makes you unique. What makes you special is you, and you are different from the next person.

I'm shy, although I'm not shy with my friends and family.

I think it's been a little difficult at times for the audience, because they've told me they see me as a family member. So to see your little sister sing about sex... I think they are pretty used to it now.

People tend to put entertainers on pedestals. We're human beings, just like you. You may see us smiling, and whether we have money or not, we still have bills to pay, we still have our stresses. I think a lot of people want to focus on others' shortcomings to make themselves feel better. And it's a very sad thing.

I'm scared to fall in love, afraid to love so fast, cuz everytime I fall in love, it seems to never last.

I just want you inside, baby, we don't need to talk about promises.

I can feel your body pressed against my body. When you start to poundin', love to feel you throbbin'.

I do not have a child and all allegations saying so are false.

It is my belief that we all have the need to feel special. It is this need that can bring out the best in us, yet the worst in us.

I always get bored with my hair. That's why I would always change it throughout my career.

By age seven, I used to comb my hair for performances, just pull my hair up into a bun. Granted, it wasn't a very intricate hairstyle. Still, to be that responsible and disciplined at age seven is unusual.

I always knew that I could go deep. How deep? I don't know. But it always seems that with each character I take on, I'm challenged to go deeper than the last time, and then again deeper than the last time. This is the deepest I've ever been asked to dive. And to see how deep I actually went for this, and that I wasn't afraid to go there in order to give Tyler exactly what he envisioned for the character, which was pretty deep, that's what I discovered about myself.

To cut off the confusion and accept an answer just because it's too scary not to have an answer is a good way to get the wrong answer.

I'm happy with the people that I have around me. And they've been friends of mine since I was young, for a very long time.

People do see me as sweet and innocent. Not to say that I am not those things. But I have other sides to me.

Everywhere I go, every smile I see, I know you are there smilin' back at me. Dancin' in moonlight, I know you are free 'cause I can see your star shinin' down on me.

There are people that regardless of what it is, if it's something that's stressful, whatever it may be, they don't eat, they lose a lot of weight, a divorce, they get real thin. I'm the opposite.

I can be an emotional eater. Of late, I have been doing that, yes. It started when I was very little. My brothers were gone on tour a lot, and I would miss them so much.

You have to feel good about yourself.

To a world sick with racism, get well soon.

I've never tried pot; I've never tried anything.

I have so much more confidence in myself now than I ever did before.

I was two when we left Indiana, and I don't really remember it that well.

The only thing that bothers me is that the girls come up to me and say, "I'm dating your ex-husband." I'm happy that he's dating girls and getting out.

In complete darkness we are all the same, it is only our knowledge and wisdom that separates us, don't let your eyes deceive you.

Food has always brought me comfort and the bingeing is triggered when I'm in a space that is not positive.

I'm a true believer in prayer, a big believer in prayer.

I was sheltered, and there's good and bad to that. The good was not getting into the drugs and the alcohol and the really sorry stuff, and the bad was finally coming out into the real world and trying to deal with it, which was hard for me.

You've made love to my mind, now you gotta take me from behind.

I have no clue why, but maybe sometimes when there's someone you don't hear from, it's the person you want to hear from the most.

Self-expression is my goal, I want to be real with my feelings. Singing and dancing and all the joy that goes with performing come from my heart. If I can't feel it, I won't do it.

I like myself a lot more than I used to. I had a very difficult time in my twenties especially. It was hard for me to look in the mirror and find something that I liked about myself.

You can never be happy until you understand why you're doing what you're doing.

Marvin Gaye is our John Lennon. The longer he's gone, the more young people appreciate his art. 'What's Going On' was a work of genius far ahead of it's time.

I've never been one for keeping a journal, so my songs were my journals. They allowed me to express my feelings and let people know what was going on with me. I knew that somebody would relate.

As a child, I had to get up early for school or work. I'd get ready by myself. I'd set my alarm to wake me up very early in the morning, and be off to work, the family driver driving me every morning. I did it alone, my parents never coming in to wake me up.

Ever since I was little, I loved to eat. I started eating when I wasn't hungry. My weight has always been up and down.

When I finally make up my mind that I want to do something, it's never been hard for me to do.

That's a part of me going back to what I used to do.

Add to the world's confusion, we teach our kids rules that we don't adhere to ourselves.

If I wasn't singing, I'd probably be, probably an accountant.

Recording is more autobiographical than acting. It's me - either how I'm feeling then or once felt at some point in my life. It's all me.

I still have certain goals that I want. Grammies... Other awards... an Oscar one day.

I was a very quiet kid. A really sweet kid, I might add.

I have met Mariah before and she's really cool and so funny. Everyone has been given the wrong impression of her, and maybe it is her doing. But you have to remember that celebrities are always in the spotlight and are sometimes forced to conduct themselves in a different way than they normally do. That's how it is in the business. I have met artists who are real divas, but Mariah Carey is not one of them. She is a very sweet person, and what nobody sees off camera is the real person she is on the inside.