Carly simon

Everyone has problems, and learning to share them is essential. Hiding pain requires an enormous amount of energy; sharing it is liberating.

We need role models who are going to break the mold.

I haven't got time for the pain.

I had some dreams, they were clouds in my coffee.

I grew up not understanding what was true and what was not true. It gave me a sense of unreality. I was told that this man [mom's lover] was not my mother's lover - when he was. I was told he was there as a male babysitter for my brother so that he would learn sports and other manly things.

We are in this period now where we all are trying to be in shape physically and deny ourselves any pleasure.

A really strong woman accepts the war she went through and is ennobled by her scars.

Then I went through a big Peggy Lee stage, then I became Annie Ross, then Judy Collins.

I try to get to those peculiar and particular things that you never think of to say.

My look was even more solidified when I started singing in Greenwich Village with my sister Lucy. We wore matching dresses as the Simon Sisters.

You're so vain. I bet you think this song is about you.

All men are created equal and all women are created equal as well, but [equality] seems much clearer when it comes to race issues. In the realms of man/woman, man/man, woman/woman love, it seems all up for grabs now. We are exploring so much, but I think we gotta go for the fight for all equality first.

We change our opinions of ourselves so often. What the outside world thinks is only a small part of our image.

You know, people want to honor me, and on the one hand I just don't want to be a poster child; but on the other, I want to do something classy and great - something where the residuals will go to the cause.

Undoubtedly, Patsy Cline was a trailblazer and in that respect, all women who are singular in a man's field have a special power.

One of the things that has always motivated me to write is the desire to get it out and look at it in an objective way, so that it doesn't cause me any serious pain by staying inside.

Do you know how many concerts I've done in my whole life, in more than 35 years of performing? Sixty-four.

But I'm lost when it comes to you.

I've learned that nobody's perfect, and I don't expect myself to be perfect anymore.

So many artists who came out during that time, including myself, were able to get on radio. New forms of singer-songwriters developed out of that.

I always sang standards because the songs I wrote for myself weren't as easy to sing.

So I suppose this slightly mature fashion sense happened because of what I had.

I'm a little old-fashioned - I like it when the man opens the door and I like it when a man pays for me. I particularly like it when they pay for dinner or whatever, because I've pretty much done the opposite, but for the exception of James [Taylor], where we split everything down the middle. I've been the larger money earner in practically all of my relationships. There's equality and there are positive differences, which are complimentary.

You usually can't tell what's inspiring until you look back on it.

I just want to show off my scar proudly and not be afraid of it.

I've gone through the village of my songwriting and my artistry, and I've gone through lots of different phases, including one where it has been very quiet and abandoned me for a few years.

We went to see all the shows. American musical theater and jazz were very big.

You don't have to prove to me you're beautiful to strangers, I've got loving eyes of my own.

The models for me were more the folk-rock singers of the '60s and '70s.

There was a French singer, Francoise Hardy - I used to look at her pictures and try to dress like her.

I remember being onstage once when I didn't have fear: I got so scared I didn't have fear that it brought on an anxiety attack.

I think that I've got some pretty bad reviews on albums or songs that later proved themselves.

Well, I make every song I sing personal. I've never chosen a song that wasn't.

My scar is beautiful. It looks like an arrow.

You say we'll soar like two birds through the clouds, but soon you'll cage me on your shelf. I'll never learn to be just me, first by myself.

You know when you take the paint off an old canvas and you discover that something's been painted underneath it? That's what I feel like - that part of the old is coming through the new.

I'm still more comfortable with standards than with my own songs.

It didn't matter as much because I'm a singer, not an actress, but my face is more acceptable in a way now than when I first came on the scene, because I'm part black.

You know, when I was diagnosed with breast cancer in 1997 I realized I had spent too long arranging my attitude.

I used the physical scar of my breast cancer operation, the scar that I have across my chest as a metaphor for all kinds of scars.

The sound of birds stops the noise in my mind.

Life is a dream even in its most painful moments, it's a dream that we can dance to.

As a singer I tried on all these hats, these voices, these clothes, and eventually out came me.

The advancements that women have made are very threatening to men in the job place. There haven't been that many women in politics. If you look at the conventions, it's kind of pathetic how many men are the heads of companies. On the other hand, I'm not sure what the reality should be.

Don't mind if I fall apart. There's more room in a broken heart.

Anticipation is making me late, it's keeping me waiting.

Being in this business for as long as I've been in it, it's sort of like living in a town or a city before the war and then after the war and then during the reconstruction and then during the time that it sprawls out to the malls.

I had this terrible stammer, so I couldn't really speak properly until I was 16 or 17.

I took it to heart that in order to be a good person; you never said anything mean about anybody.

I always think it's interesting to dig a little bit deeper every time you go to someplace that seems like a revelation or a strong connection to an emotional truth.

He was a first-time nonviolent possible offender, ... And under the mandatory minimums, he was put in prison for 15 years. Not only does the punishment not fit the crime, but the mandatory minimums don't give judges any discretion to look at the background of the case, to read into the specifics of the case. I don't know a judge who really is in favor of the mandatory minimums.

It's like The Mold in Dr. Florey's Coat, about the discovery of penicillin. Out of these strange accidents come huge discoveries. A certain purple bleeds into red and all of a sudden you have something unexpected.

Worrying too much about other people's ears and not my own, I lost my way.

I had a mastectomy in 1998, and then chemo.

Sometimes my boyfriend would write the lyrics and I would write the melody, and other times I would start from scratch. Or sometimes I would take a local poem and put that to music...I always sang standards because the songs I wrote for myself weren't as easy to sing.

I've always thought of myself as being a warrior. When you actually have a battle, it's better than when you don't know who to fight.

My father was a classical pianist, and my mother was a singer of just about everything.

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Carly Simon: Biography and Life Work

Carly Simon was a notable Singer. The story of Carly Simon began on June 25, 1943 in New York City, U.S..

Carly Elisabeth Simon (born June 25, 1943) is an American musician, singer, songwriter, and author. She rose to fame in the 1970s with a string of hit records; her 13 top 40 U.S. hits include " That's the Way I've Always Heard It Should Be " (No. 10), " Anticipation " (No. 13), " The Right Thing to Do " (No. 17), " Haven't Got Time for the Pain " (No. 14), " You Belong to Me " (No. 6), " Coming Around Again " (No. 18), and her four Gold -certified singles " You're So Vain " (No. 1), " Mockingbird " (No. 5, a duet with James Taylor ), " Nobody Does It Better " (No. 2) from the 1977 James Bond film The Spy Who Loved Me , and " Jesse " (No. She has authored two memoirs and five children's books.

Legacy and Personal Influence

Personally, Carly Simon was married to James Taylor (divorced), James Hart (divorced).

Philosophical Views and Reflections

In November 1995, the American press reported an incident between Simon and the Pretenders ' vocalist Chrissie Hynde at a Joni Mitchell concert at New York's Fez Club . Some reports stated that a drunk and disorderly Hynde grabbed Simon around the neck and punched her, although Simon attempted to put these rumors to rest on her official website in 2002, writing "Chrissie was a bit intoxicated and was yelling out during Joni's performance which needless to say, everybody wanted to hear. Chrissie was sitting right next to me and I asked her to be a little quieter. She started choking me in a loving way, saying: 'you're great too Carly, get up there, you need to do this too'. That's all it was about. I must say that her choking me in 'fun intoxication' looked to a lot of the audience like a fight. I just couldn't believe that no one was interceding and saying anything to her. I love her music and respect her as an artist. It was just one of those things.

Tori Amos cited Simon as an influence, and often covers "Boys in the Trees" in concert; "I used to listen to this song over and over, wishing I'd wrote it," Amos once said of the track. At the 2012 ASCAP awards, where Simon received the Founders Award, Dixie Chicks lead singer Natalie Maines stated: "I grew up listening to Carly Simon, she was a huge influence on me." Maines then performed " That's the Way I've Always Heard It Should Be ", which she said was one of her favorite Carly Simon songs. In a 2021 essay for Rolling Stone , Clairo wrote of Simon: "Every time I listen to her, I feel like she's talking to me directly or saying something that took a lot of courage to build up to say." She continued: "There's nothing you could add or take away from her legacy, because she's always been truthful," concluding with "the fact that she was always so upfront about everything that wasn't perfect, I think, is what makes her the most important to me." Sara Bareilles , while inducting Simon into the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame, stated: "Like so many singer-songwriters who have come after her, I too have felt the powerful impact of Carly Simon and been made better for it."

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